The Joy of Saying No

A Simple Plan to Stop People Pleasing, Reclaim Boundaries, and Say Yes to the Life You Want
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The Joy of Saying No by Natalie Lue offers practical advice on assertiveness, helping readers to set boundaries and maintain healthier relationships. It explores the impact of people-pleasing behaviour and provides strategies for overcoming guilt and fear associated with refusing demands. Through this approach, the book aims to empower individuals to lead more authentic and fulfilling lives.
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This book may appeal to you if you're looking to empower yourself by setting healthy boundaries and learning to value your own needs as much as others. It offers insights and techniques for overcoming people-pleasing tendencies and helps build self-confidence through the art of assertiveness. Ideal for anyone wanting to reclaim their time and energy by gently but firmly saying no when necessary.

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The Joy of Saying No

No is not a dirty word. Follow author Natalie Lue’s six-step plan to find your no so you can create healthier boundaries and reconnect with your values and authentic self.

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Are you still playing a role you learned in childhood to please others, such as the Good Girl/Boy, the Overachiever, or the Helper? Though these kinds of roles may have gained us attention and affection, they prohibited us from becoming our true selves.

People-pleasing—putting others ahead of ourselves to avoid something negative or to get something we want or need—runs rampant in our society. Saying yes when we should say no leaves us stuck in frustrating patterns. And when we don’t say yes authentically, we say it resentfully, which leads to more problems than if we'd said no in the first place.

The Joy of Saying No will help you identify your people-pleasing style and habits. A six-step framework then teaches you how to discover the healing and transformative power of no to:

  • establish healthier boundaries,
  • foster more intimate relationships and fulfilling experiences, and
  • reconnect with your values and authentic self.

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The Joy of Saying No by Natalie Lue has been praised for offering practical insights on setting boundaries and prioritising one's well-being. Reviewers appreciate its relatable anecdotes and straightforward guidance, helping readers to overcome people-pleasing tendencies. Readers find the author's approach empowering, allowing them to confidently decline unwanted commitments and reclaim their time.

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INFORMATION

ISBN: 9780785290476

Publisher: HarperCollins Focus

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 23 November 2023

Country: United States

Imprint: Harper Horizon

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 19.0mm

Width: 142.0mm

Height: 221.0mm

Weight: 244g

Pages: 240

About the Author

Natalie Lue is a writer, speaker, podcaster, artist, and founder of one of the longest running self-help blogs in the world, Baggage Reclaim and The Baggage Reclaim Sessions podcast. The British-born, Dublin, Ireland-raised author helps people understand how their emotional baggage is interfering with their ability to live their lives happily and authentically. Her advice has been featured in the New York Times, Forbes, NPR, USA Today, and the BBC, among many others. Natalie lives in Caterham, Surrey, on the edge of south London with her husband, two daughters, and cockerpoo.

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