How To Know a Person
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How To Know a Person
How to Know a Person by David Brooks is a deeply practical and heartfelt guide that delves into the art of truly understanding others to foster meaningful connections in all aspects of life. From home and work to broader societal interactions, this book guides readers on a journey towards deeper and more empathetic relationships.
In this insightful work, Brooks, the renowned author of The Road to Character and The Second Mountain, explores the fundamental premise that to genuinely care for someone, you must first understand them. Whether hiring, marrying, befriending, or simply working alongside someone, the ability to see them clearly and make them feel recognized and valued is paramount.
Brooks reflects on a compelling truth he has come to believe: "The older I get, the more I come to the certainty that there is one skill at the centre of any healthy family, company, classroom, community, or nation—the ability to see each other, to know other people, to make them feel valued, heard, and understood."
Despite its importance, this skill is often lacking in society today. Many people feel invisible, unseen, and misunderstood. In How to Know a Person, Brooks tackles this issue head-on, offering essential questions and insights. He asks, if you want to truly know a person, what kind of attention should you give them? What types of conversations should you engage in? What aspects of a person's story should you focus on?
Known for his inquisitive nature, Brooks draws on his vast knowledge of psychology, neuroscience, theatre, history, and education to present a comprehensive and hopeful approach to human connection. This book is not just a guide but a call to action, encouraging readers to become more considerate and understanding towards others. It is a blueprint for finding joy in being truly seen and understanding others deeply.
How to Know a Person addresses a societal crisis characterised by fragmentation, hostility, and misperception, offering a remedy through the profound and creative act of truly seeing another person. Brooks challenges readers to look someone in the eye and acknowledge the greatness within them, consequently discovering something greater within themselves.
This book is for anyone searching for connection, seeking to foster understanding, and yearning for mutual recognition. It offers a path towards a more connected and empathetic society, providing tools and insights to transform the way we relate to each other.
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How to Know a Person by David Brooks is praised for its practical advice on enhancing conversational and social skills, emphasizing their learnable nature. Reviews highlight its engaging writing style and impactful guidance, positioning it as more than just a conversation guide but a manual for a more connected and humane way of living. Critics found it original, useful, and transformative, making it a highly recommended read.
Book Details
INFORMATION
ISBN: 9780241670293
Publisher: Penguin Books Ltd
Format: Hardback
Date Published: 24 October 2023
Country: United Kingdom
Imprint: Allen Lane
Audience: General / adult, Tertiary education, Professional and scholarly
DIMENSIONS
Spine width: 33.0mm
Width: 161.0mm
Height: 242.0mm
Weight: 522g
Pages: 320
About the Author
David Brooks is a columnist for The New York Times and frequent broadcaster. His previous books include the bestsellers The Social Animal and Bobos in Paradise. His New York Times columns reach over 800,000 readers across the globe.
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