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People Skills

How To Assert Yourself, Listen To Others, And Resolve Conflicts
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People Skills by Robert Bolton delves into effective communication strategies to improve interpersonal relationships. It focuses on recognising and overcoming common communication barriers while offering practical tools to enhance active listening, assertiveness, and conflict resolution. This book aims to refine your ability to interact positively and effectively with others.
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This book may appeal to you if you are looking to improve your interpersonal communication skills for both personal and professional growth. Through practical techniques and insights, the author helps you navigate conversations more effectively, reduce conflict, and build stronger relationships.

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A wall of silent resentment shuts you off from someone you love. You listen to an argument in which neither party seems to hear the other. Your mind drifts to other matters when people talk to you. People Skills by Robert Bolton is a comprehensive communication-skills handbook that addresses these all-too-common issues. This essential guide is designed to help you eliminate communication problems and forge stronger, more meaningful connections with others. The book starts by identifying and describing the 12 most common communication barriers, or "roadblocks," that can damage relationships by increasing defensiveness, aggressiveness, or dependency. Bolton expertly outlines effective skills in crucial areas such as listening, asserting yourself, resolving conflicts, and working out problems with others. Each chapter is filled with practical ideas and exercises geared towards fostering effective communication habits. With the help of People Skills, you can learn how to listen more attentively, allowing you to genuinely understand the feelings and thoughts of others. By mastering assertiveness, you can express your own needs and feelings openly and appropriately, without being aggressive or causing unnecessary conflict. The book also delves into conflict resolution, providing techniques to navigate and resolve disputes constructively. This is particularly useful in high-stress or emotionally charged situations, where clear and calm communication is most needed. Applying the strategies found in People Skills can lead to closer family ties, warmer friendships, and more productive work relationships. It equips you with the necessary skills to communicate more effectively, thereby transforming how you interact with the people around you. Whether you are seeking to improve personal relationships or professional collaboration, this book offers valuable insights and tools to help you communicate more effectively and build stronger connections with others.

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People Skills by Robert Bolton is praised for its practical advice on improving communication and resolving conflicts. Readers appreciate its clear explanations, actionable techniques, and real-world examples. It is described as a valuable resource for both personal and professional relationships.

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Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9780731800315

Publisher: Simon & Schuster Australia

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 01 November 1987

Country: Australia

Imprint: Simon & Schuster Australia

Audience: General / adult

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Weight: 250g

Pages: 300

About the Author

Robert Bolton, Ph.D., is president of Ridge Consultants in Cazenovia, New York, a firm that specializes in improving human performance in industry, health care, education, and government. His staff has taught communication skills to thousands of managers, salespersons, first-line supervisors, secretaries, customer-relations personnel, teachers, members of the clergy, health-care workers, couples, and others. He is the author ofΒ People Skills,Β People Styles at Work, andΒ Listen Up or Lose Out.

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