{"product_id":"with-sprinkles-on-top-by-stefani-goerlich-9781649630346","title":"With Sprinkles on Top","description":"\u003cdiv class=\"book-description\"\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eA sex therapist's playful, affirming, and informative guide to exploring desire differences between kinky and nonkinky, or \"vanilla,\" partners.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cem\u003eWith Sprinkles on Top\u003c\/em\u003e offers a positive and empowering resource for talking about and working through sexual differences—particularly between kinky and vanilla partners. With more than 80 percent of adult couples in the US reporting desire discrepancies and many people holding fantasies they don't feel comfortable sharing, \u003cem\u003eWith Sprinkles on Top\u003c\/em\u003e provides much-needed support. Dr Stefani Goerlich makes it clear that vanilla can be delicious—and so can kink! Focusing on communication and connection, this guide helps you find the sprinkles that can enhance your relationship.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eWith empathy and understanding, Dr Goerlich addresses hopes and fears on both sides of a desire divide and provides shame-free guidance for relationships of different shapes and orientations. Here you'll find:\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cul\u003e\n  \u003cli\u003eHelpful information about BDSM and kink—what it is, its effects on relationships, and what a partner's interest might imply, or not!\u003c\/li\u003e\n  \u003cli\u003eWorksheets and questionnaires to help each partner explore their desires, what turns them on, when they might feel open to experimentation, and how to talk about it.\u003c\/li\u003e\n  \u003cli\u003eSetting boundaries—tips for feeling safe and drawing the line with care.\u003c\/li\u003e\n  \u003cli\u003eGuidance for staying true to yourself, satisfying your partner, and finding new delights together.\u003c\/li\u003e\n  \u003cli\u003eInsights and guidance on what \"normal\" and \"kinky\" actually mean, bringing imagination into the bedroom, polyamorous possibilities, and much more.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eAs Dr Goerlich writes, \"The vanilla people that I work with tell me that they want relationships built on mutual love, respect, understanding, gentleness, and trust. Funnily enough, the kinky people I work with tell me the same thing, just that they want the 'gentleness' aspect to be negotiable.\" \u003cem\u003eWith Sprinkles on Top\u003c\/em\u003e affirms that vanilla and kinky people can thrive together—and offers practical solutions for protecting, preserving, and strengthening your relationship.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e","brand":"Macmillan Publishers New Zealand Ltd","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":48244863041772,"sku":"9781649630346","price":39.99,"currency_code":"NZD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0705\/7784\/8556\/files\/370a6287f38b0ac49998ebe2d7ac22ca.jpg?v=1788147316","url":"https:\/\/bookhero.co.nz\/products\/with-sprinkles-on-top-by-stefani-goerlich-9781649630346","provider":"Book Hero","version":"1.0","type":"link"}