{"product_id":"understanding-the-borderline-mother-by-christine-ann-lawson-9780765703316","title":"Understanding the Borderline Mother","description":"\u003cdiv class=\"book-description\"\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThe first love in our lives is our mother. Recognizing her face, her voice, the meaning of her moods, and her facial expressions is crucial to survival.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eDr. Christine Ann Lawson vividly describes how mothers who suffer from borderline personality disorder produce children who may flounder in life even as adults, futilely struggling to reach the safety of a parental harbour, unable to recognise that their borderline parent lacks a pier, or even a discernible shore.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eFour character profiles describe different symptom clusters that include the waif mother, the hermit mother, the queen mother, and the witch. Children of borderlines are at risk for developing this complex and devastating personality disorder themselves.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eDr. Lawson's recommendations for prevention include empathic understanding of the borderline mother and early intervention with her children to ground them in reality and counteract the often dangerous effects of living with a 'make-believe' mother. Some readers may recognise their mothers as well as themselves in \u003cem\u003eUnderstanding the Borderline Mother\u003c\/em\u003e. They will also find specific suggestions for creating healthier relationships.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eAddressing the adult children of borderlines and the therapists who work with them, Dr. Lawson shows how to care for the waif without rescuing her, to attend to the hermit without feeding her fear, to love the queen without becoming her subject, and to live with the witch without becoming her victim.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cem\u003eUnderstanding the Borderline Mother\u003c\/em\u003e is a Jason Aronson Book.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e","brand":"Unknown","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":47433236513004,"sku":"9780765703316","price":188.61,"currency_code":"NZD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0705\/7784\/8556\/files\/9780765703316.jpg?v=1774765377","url":"https:\/\/bookhero.co.nz\/products\/understanding-the-borderline-mother-by-christine-ann-lawson-9780765703316","provider":"Book Hero","version":"1.0","type":"link"}