{"product_id":"transland-by-mx-sly-9781551529318","title":"Transland","description":"\u003cdiv class=\"book-description\"\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eA memoir of transformation and self-discovery that explores fetish communities from a gender diverse perspective.\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cem\u003eTransland\u003c\/em\u003e is a fiery and revealing memoir that explores what happens when a non-binary person goes looking for self-worth and a sense of belonging in fetish subculture, only to find that fetish communities come with just as many problematic rules, expectations, and hierarchies as mainstream ones.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eMoving from wide-eyed optimism that the fetish community is the promised land to realising the ways fetish communities—even queer ones—reinforce the commodification of bodies, Mx. Sly examines how BDSM helped them understand and articulate their gender, how kink helped them turn shameful experiences into liberating ones, and how they became disillusioned with the BDSM scene—without rejecting the lessons fetish taught them.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eThe stories in \u003cem\u003eTransland\u003c\/em\u003e explore PTSD, intergenerational trauma, memory, consent, gender transition and diversity, queer relationships and subculture, and \u003cem\u003ea lot\u003c\/em\u003e of bondage. An odyssey of kinky hookups (including a charismatic Toronto femdomme, an Aussie rope bondage expert, and the queer sex tourism neighbourhood of Bangkok), gender euphoria, and testing the limits of sensual experience, this memoir is a candid exploration of fetish communities and practices and a wandering quest through sensuality toward personal strength and self-reliance. Sexy, gutting, graphic, and existential, \u003cem\u003eTransland\u003c\/em\u003e is about finding oneself through intense sensations, reaching a point where being hit has diminishing returns, and coming out wiser on the other side.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e'Mx. Sly brings unapologetic sexuality, a keen sense of detail, and emotional rawness to their work. It's the type of storytelling that's prone to leave audiences equal parts nervous and turned on.' — Graham Isador, former contributing editor with \u003cem\u003eVICE\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e'Powerfully raw and kinky in all the best ways. I was so emotionally invested. This memoir is fucking amazing.' — Hasan Namir, author of \u003cem\u003eGod in Pink\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e'Mx Sly is a mesmerising writer, and \u003cem\u003eTransland\u003c\/em\u003e is a mesmerising book. Through prose that is as spine-chilling in its eloquence as in its honesty, Sly shows how the world of kink—a world largely foreign to many readers—can satisfy needs that are universal: the need for perspective, for imagination, for transformation, for transcendence. By turns raunchy, heartbreaking, and wise, \u003cem\u003eTransland\u003c\/em\u003e is a resplendent act of affirmation.' — C.E. Gatchalian, author of \u003cem\u003eDouble Melancholy: Art, Beauty, and the Making of a Brown Queer Man\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e","brand":"Hachette Aotearoa New Zealand","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":46855350452460,"sku":"9781551529318","price":56.0,"currency_code":"NZD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0705\/7784\/8556\/files\/2364e92ad69bd01b4649b7a1ea6b2cb7.jpg?v=1759278768","url":"https:\/\/bookhero.co.nz\/products\/transland-by-mx-sly-9781551529318","provider":"Book Hero","version":"1.0","type":"link"}