{"title":"Susan Shapiro","description":"\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eSusan Shapiro\u003c\/strong\u003e offers insightful and engaging works that delve into personal growth and emotional resilience. Her writing blends honesty and wit, guiding readers through the complexities of forgiveness, self-acceptance, and healing.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eWith a focus on navigating life’s challenges, her books provide thoughtful reflections and practical perspectives, making them essential reading for those seeking to better understand themselves and their relationships.\u003c\/p\u003e","products":[{"product_id":"the-forgiveness-tour-by-susan-shapiro-9781510781641","title":"The Forgiveness Tour","description":"\u003cdiv class=\"book-description\"\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eHow Apologies Can Help You Move Forward With Your Life\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003e\"To err is human; to forgive divine.\" But what if the person who hurt you most refuses to apologise or express any regret?\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eThat's the question haunting Manhattan journalist Susan Shapiro when her trusted advisor of fifteen years repeatedly lies to her. Stunned by the betrayal, she can barely eat or sleep. She's always seen herself as big-hearted and benevolent, someone who will forgive anyone anything—as long as they're remorseful. Yet the addiction specialist who helped her quit smoking, drinking, and drugs after decades of self-destruction won't explain—or stop—his ongoing deceit, leaving her blindsided. Her crisis management strategy is becoming her crisis.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eTo protect her sanity and sobriety, Shapiro ends their relationship and vows they'll never speak again. Yet ghosting him doesn't end her distress. She has screaming arguments with him in her mind, relives their fallout in panicked nightmares, and even lights a candle, chanting a secret Yiddish curse to exact revenge.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eIn her entrancing, heartfelt new memoir \u003cem\u003eThe Forgiveness Tour: How to Find the Perfect Apology\u003c\/em\u003e, Shapiro wrestles with how to exonerate someone who can't cough up a measly \"my bad\" or mumble \"mea culpa.\" Seeking wisdom, she explores the billion-dollar forgiveness industry touting the personal benefits of absolution, where the only choice on every channel is: radical forgiveness. She fears it's all bullshit.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eDesperate for enlightenment, she surveys her old rabbis, as well as religious leaders from every denomination. Unable to reconcile all the confusing abstractions, she embarks on a cross-country journey where she interviews people who suffered unforgivable wrongs that were never atoned: victims of genocides, sexual assault, infidelity, cruelty, and racism. A Holocaust survivor in D.C. admits he's thrived from spite. A Michigan man meets with the drunk driver who killed his wife and children. A daughter in Seattle grapples with her mother—who stayed married to the father who raped her. Knowing their estrangement isn't her fault, a Florida mom spends eight years apologising to her son anyway—with surprising results. Does love mean forever having to say you're sorry?\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eCritics praised Shapiro's previous memoir \u003cem\u003eLighting Up: How I Stopped Smoking, Drinking and Everything Else I Loved in Life Except Sex\u003c\/em\u003e as fiercely honest, fascinating, funny, and \"a mind-bendingly good read.\" Now the bestselling author and popular writing professor returns with a darker, wiser follow-up, addressing the universal enigma of blind forgiving.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eShapiro's brilliant new gurus soothe her broken psyche and answer her burning mystery: How can you forgive someone without an apology? Does she? Should you?\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e","brand":"Hachette Aotearoa New Zealand","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":47559031750892,"sku":"9781510781641","price":49.99,"currency_code":"NZD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0705\/7784\/8556\/files\/9781510781641-the-forgiveness-tour.jpg?v=1776927520"}],"url":"https:\/\/bookhero.co.nz\/collections\/susan-shapiro.oembed","provider":"Book Hero","version":"1.0","type":"link"}